Open Friday is finally back again folks!! This week is a very interesting letter written talking about dating while being pregnant. Check it out and don’t forget to chime in with your thoughts…
I just started following you and I love your posts! It’s just rare these days that you hear a black man’s point of view and a POV without someone trying to tell you what they think you want to hear.
What is your take on men and pregnant women? Is it mostly just a fetish or could someone take a pregnant woman seriously?
I just started a blog about this and I’m dating as an experiment to see how men react but I’m wondering if you have experienced this or had a discussion with anyone who has?
First off thanks for coming through to the blog and I appreciate those words from you!!
Now on to your question… I will say for me personally I would think for most men that dating a woman who is pregnant is a fetish thing. Personally I have trepidation with having sex with a pregnant woman (unless it was mine). I just have a metaphysical idea of pregnancy and energy. I believe that another man entering a woman will throw off the energy of the child coming into the world.
Me and my co-host Jovan Bibbs talked about your letter on our podcast “Straight Outta LoCash” and like he said the only reason he could see a dude dating a chick already pregnant is because he likes the idea of being able to go RAW without consequence because you are ALREADY pregnant. Though his tone was comedic it holds up very well nonetheless.
I also think honestly that you shouldn’t actively be dating while you are pregnant. Personally I think the focus should be on the child that is coming into the world. I would say keep your focus on that because honestly not many dudes will take you seriously. Not saying it can’t happen but the odds of a guy taking you serious while pregnant are slim. I just say focus on your seed. You can find love and date after the child is healthy and in a comfortable place.
Now it’s time for you give YOUR Thoughts on the letter?
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