Some men decide to fly the straight and narrow. Find one woman, wine and dine her, fall in love, get married, and live a life that’s deserving. On the other hand some men get caught in situations that leave them looking back wondering how did they get in that situation in the first place. I’m talking about the men that have side chicks. Some men can keep a side chick in their place, and often times there are women out there that even know their place to begin with. They’re not looking for anything. So what happens when you fall for your side chick. Will you decide to marry her or not? That will leave your main chick changing roles from the main chick to the side chick. Can you live with that? Before you answer here are some points on why marrying the side chick can go right or wrong.
In most cases some men can keep their side chick in check, however other times it doesn’t matter if the side chick is crazy or not. It’s a small world and things happen. Ask Peter Gunz of VH1’s “Love and Hip Hop”. He’ll tell you on how messy things can change in a hurry. Then the fact you want to marry your side chick brings all sorts of drama to the equation. Over all its just plain messy not to mention can save you a lot of potential embarrassment.
2. Who’s Holding You Down?
On the flip side of the coin, not to say that it’s right but maybe your side chick has been there for you since day one. Possibly she’s the one that really could hold things down, and your main chick could be the one dropping the ball. A lot of relationship blogs out there will tell ya not everything that glitters is gold. However, what if the thing that you think is the gold really isn’t. There have been many lasting relationships that have come from being the side chick. Not to say it’s initially right in the beginning, but if that woman is holding you down while the wife is out and about and not taking care of things for you then maybe you should possibly end things with her before you give your all to your side chick.
3. Side Chick Position: Vacancy Open
Lets say you’re the bold one and do marry your side chick. What happens then? Think about it, the side chick position is available yet again. Yea sure you married your side chick, and everything is fine and dandy. If you let a side chick into your life to begin with, what makes you think you won’t let that happen again. Another reason things can go very wrong when you marry the side chick.
Marrying your side chick has a few last perks. Usually with a side chick you know what you’re getting in the beginning. You’re honest with her, and she is with you. Now don’t get me wrong, everyone lies, but chances are you’re more likely than she is. She says she’s out with her girls, she probably is. She won’t lie to you because there’s no reason to; she just became the main chick. She gets all of you.
A side chick isn’t for everyone, but hopefully if you do decide to have one and you’re contemplating on marrying her make sure you know all the pros and cons of the decision!
Brandon Grimes is a freelance writer and avid poetry fanatic. He writes short stories, poems, top 10 posts for various niche industries across the country.
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