Be Careful What You Wish For Because You Just Might Get It
I guess God was like, aight fine Careful what you wish for, cause you just might get it in heaps Try to give it back he be like – nah […]
Category Archives: Life
Allen Iverson…The Modern Shakespearean Tragedy
The last few months haven’t been the best for one Allen Iverson from no NBA team wanting to pick him up to his many financial problems He recently has been […]
Why Are You Dwelling On Past Or The Future?…Live For Today!
I actually originally wrote this post two years ago but I received a heart-felt email from someone yesterday who was worried about a family member being effected by the Boston […]
The Right Man/Woman IS NOT Going to Make You A Better Person
The other day I was watching the movie As Good as It Gets with Jack Nicholson and Helen Hunt. There is a scene in the movie where Nicholson’s character says […]
“Do I Look Like An ATM?”: Filling Souls With Soles
Across America about ten years ago, long lines of adults began crowding outside of retail stores, often sleeping outside overnight, elbowing and fighting for their chance to purchase products, such […]
You Are So Used To Losing That You Don’t Even Know When You Are Winning
I have written about before that the worst enemy we have is our own selves. The way our mind constructs and sees the world is something that is constantly needs […]
Having Empathy For Someone’s Struggle
I’ve talked to a lot of people in my life. People from all different backgrounds, countries, nationality, personality and so forth. Comments that never seems to change when I’m talking […]
Guess Who is Rockin With IBM and Smarter Commerce??
You all have problem seeing some of my posts having the hashtag #Mysmartercommerce and wondering what the hell is going on. Well finally, I am able to let the cat […]
Don’t Just Be Against Violence When Its White on Black (ala Trayvon Martin)
Last year I was honored to be a speaker at the St. Louis’ Trayvon Martin rally with Vandalyzm, Corey Black, and Ronnie Notch. The event was something that got people […]
Are Black Women Really Relationship Abused?
I met a man the other day. Engaged in conversation over drinks and dinner, he explained to me that he was having a difficult time dating black women. I asked […]
Its Hard For Someone to Accept Love When They Don’t Love Themselves
The moment we realize that the person we cared about doesn’t feel the same about us can be a hard pill to swallow. Many times we will overly blame ourselves […]
The Person You Should Be MAD At Is Right In the Mirror
We live in a society inundated with the idea of self-absorption and self-victimization. Some people constantly walk around in a state of perpetual “woe is me” being. People are always […]
Open Friday: I Want My EX Back But I Have One BIG Problem…
Dear FATC, So I’ve asked only a couple of peoples opinions about this, but a stranger would be so much better. I dated a man for 7 months but during these […]
5 Reasons Why Exercise is an Integral Part of Your Success
If you’re anything like the majority of the population you find it hard to get yourself to the gym everyday. We are bombarded with messages of weight loss, but for some […]
25 More Questions That Need to Be Asked
We all have questions and a lot of questions when it comes to all facets of life but I feel my questions need answers or just make you think. People really enjoyed […]
Open Friday: She Says I Need More Money To Marry Her
Dear FATC, I have a major problem right now. My lady and I have been together for a few years and I feel everything is going great in our relationship. […]
Who is Your Worst Enemy?…YOUR MIND
A few weeks ago I was having one of those days where I began to reevaluate who I am and where I am going. I found myself laying in the […]
“The Struggle” Continues Because Of Black Parents
“Death and life lie in the power of the tongue.” This scripture found in Proverbs 18:21 is often quoted by many regardless of who or what they believe in. But […]
Would You Be In Your Gay Son’s Or Best Friends Wedding?
This past week the internet has gone en fuego and when I been en fuego I been seriously hot after a video went viral of Nathanial Gay a member of Kappa […]
If You Love Them…Let Them Go!
This was actually a guest post I wrote a few months back for one of my favorite blogs “This is Your Conscience” but a letter from one of my readers […]
