Those Selfish and Entitled Women That Men Love
You would think that men would be smart enough to fight back against women demanding unrealistic and uncharacteristic things in a relationship, but the vicious cycle of strong women making […]
Tag Archives: Marriage
“Do I Look Like An ATM?”: Filling Souls With Soles
Across America about ten years ago, long lines of adults began crowding outside of retail stores, often sleeping outside overnight, elbowing and fighting for their chance to purchase products, such […]
Is The Marriage Struggle Really That Real?
I was witness to some of the most outlandish ish in the world last week. I’m talking nonsense of epic proportions! I was eating at one of my favorite spots and […]
Open Friday: She Says I Need More Money To Marry Her
Dear FATC, I have a major problem right now. My lady and I have been together for a few years and I feel everything is going great in our relationship. […]
Please Stop Confusing Dating With Courting
The number one point of frustration with the dating discussion of today is the fact that women have chosen not to conform to the times in terms of give and […]
5 Reasons Why Colored Girl’s Should Consider Polygamy
Make sure you check out this week’s episode of the “Straight Outta Lo Cash” Radio Show. This week’s show “Ladies if You Want to Keep Your Man?” featuring Poet and […]
Men and the Madonna “HO” Complex
Last time I decided to go deep into the concept of sex and relationships things got pretty heated (peep: “Not Having Sex Before Marriage is a Setup For Failure“). This post […]
An Open Letter to My Unborn Child
If you haven’t make sure you check out this weeks episodes of the “Straight Outta Lo Cash” Radio Show. This week’s show “Go Ahead and Divorce Me Then!” feat. model Courtney Nicole You […]
Open Friday: How Does a Baby Mama Become a Wife?
If you haven’t make sure you check out this weeks episodes of the “Straight Outta Lo Cash” Radio Show. This week’s show “When Will America Just Exhale?” with special guest […]
Some Truths That Women Don’t Want to Hear
When it comes to dating most times men think too simplistically about women while women think too indepthly into men. But, Is there things that women don’t know or just […]
Open Friday: She Can’t Be Ready For Marriage!
If you haven’t already check out the great posts this week “Living in a Material World…” and “Why is There No In between? We Either Niggaz or Kings…Bitches or Queens”. Well, […]
Open Friday: Am I Wrong For Breaking Off The Engagement?
I bring you another edition of Open Friday where people send me emails on different problems or topics and I let you all discuss the idea in the comments section. […]
Open Friday: Can’t Get Over Her Lies and Sexual Past!
So, I received a letter and comment from a brotha in reference to a guest post from Jamala Mete(@SimplyMilele) “Why Can’t You Change a Ho Into a Housewife?” and my […]
Not Having Sex Before Marriage is a Setup For Failure
Images and perception are everything in this world we live it. One main thing that has been proliferated throughout our society is that people (particularly women) need to wait till […]
Caught The Garter, Now What?
This past weekend I finished the finale of my wedding summer with the wedding of one of my best friends from college in St. Thomas, Virgin Islands. It was a beautiful […]
Rethinking Relationships: Is Monogamy Natural or Cultural?
I was honored to be interviewed for the Vibe and Vegas Podcast talking about being a Black Blogger in 2011 and winning the Best Black Culture Blog at the Black […]
The 27 Dresses and 27 Tuxes Complex
This year I am set to be a groomsman in three different weddings which will bring my total of groomsman duties to around 6 weddings in the last 3 years. […]
What If You Found Out That Your Lover Settled For You?
There is a quote from Chris Rock where he comments on the notion that for many women the man they settle down with is not their “first choice”. Chris Rock […]
Marriages Should Be Like NBA Contracts
My last post on marriage “When Are We Going to Learn Marriage Isn’t For Everyone” had a lot of people buzzing on what the concept of marriage was. I spoke […]
When Are We Going to Realize That Marriage is Not For Everyone?
Yesterday I received a text message from one of my closest friends and it simply said this, “Never get married. I warn you not to be a fool like me. […]
